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Geo Adira's avatar

THIS.

Excellent article. Love it!!

As an ISTP honestly sometimes I do find an INFP’s arguments irrational and nonsensical, but I also know logically that is untrue. We just speak in separate registers so it takes more effort to understand each other, and when you think about it… that level of neurodiversity is quite beautiful and doesn’t make either of us “objectively wrong”. After all both Fi and Ti are subjective.

I do have two small counter-arguments if you do feel compelled to entertain them…

The first thing is in terms of the ability to articulate logic when you said that Se users will have more trouble explaining their logic than Ne users. This gave me pause because I see it as the opposite (and the act of ISFPs superimposing their emotions onto physical objects seems like Ni symbolism more than anything else). But it makes perfect sense that your Ne would have trouble understanding logic rooted in Se signals and vice versa.

The second thing is the “Fi is friendly, Ti is tough” claim. I know I know, I’m probably proving your point right now 😂 but hear me out. Ti pairs with Fe, and Fe has social aptitude that Fi just doesn’t have (for you Fe probably comes across as fake, so your personal reading makes sense too). It’s funny because most of the Fi doms I know online are very friendly, but the ones I know irl often are very blunt and abrasive. I won’t sit here and tell you what your dominant function does because that’s ridiculous. And you’re probably picking up on something I can’t see anyway. But I will say that because Ti comes paired with Fe, unless the individual is completely neglecting their other functions they will often present with an almost unnecessary level of social caution that comes across as friendly.

Uhh sorry for leaving an essay. I just discovered your Substack and am quite excited about it. Looking forward to hearing more of your thoughts!

Kaze Nguyen | Epic Fantasy's avatar

Ahhhh! So that's what the functions mean...

Thanks for doing so much research and putting so much effort into crafting the article!

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